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Single and in a relationship: What is better??

In my last post, I was talking about a book I read called Death of a Cheating Man. This book is about a man who has been cheating in all of his relationship and decides to changes his way by honesty with himself and his mate. In this book, he talks about different types of cheaters, how cheating effect the cheater, but also their mates, and how to change. Also, in the book it tells women how to spot a cheater.

I thought the book was informative about cheating and why a man cheats. Also, as a woman I felt that he was stating that women in this day lack feminine qualities because some women choose career over having a relationship and family. I wonder why women are put in box for being a bad person because they want sex instead of companionship and a career over a family. You have men like George Clooney who dates various women and has a great career, but no one is saying that he is a bad person for living the life he wants. For a women, in this day and age, we are sometimes considered a bad person for not wanting these or not trying to make these happen in our lives.

What is better?? Being in a relationship or single??

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starchini said over 2 years ago ...

I havn't met anyone that thought some woman was a bad person for wanting a career instead of a family...That certainly isn't an opinion I care to even entertain.

What one is better a relationship or being single? ... completly depends on the persons preferances. Some people are scared to death of being alone, these people should be in relationships. Other people are intolerable and no one can stand them, these people should be single. However to answer the question given the choices and to broadly generalize across everyone...I'd say relationships are better, simply because having someone to share an experience with amplifies the experience and makes it an even more special experience. Same for bad experiences, its always easier to cope if there is an extra ear to rape or shoulder to cry on. However there is bad with everything...I feel like ripping my husbands head off these past few days- for example...But if I was to say look at a sunset this evening, despite seeing red when I look at him, the sunset would mean more to me if I held his hand and saw him enjoying it too. So, there are highs and lows to everyones life and no one should be envious of somenone elses life...we live our own lives and only know our lives we must make the best of them and not compare them to others because we dont know there trials and tribulations, only our own. Currently I am jealous of single people, getting to go out and do whatever the fuck they want with whomever they want and flying at the seat of their pants with no one to answer to....but then when the days come that I like my husband more than I do right at this moment, im happy and appreciative I get the opportunity to share everything with him, and do not miss the type of freedom I lack, but embrace it.

starchini said over 2 years ago ...

Of course a single person may very well say the exact opposite of what I said : P

msbradford83 said over 2 years ago ...

You are right.

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