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Well I've been messing around with them since I split up with my ex. I've now come to realise how totally futile they are. Full of needy maternal women in their 30s so desperate to have a baby and a white wedding they'll go with anyone, single mothers who bitch about their ex boyfriends and say "he's a terrible father", when he never wanted to be a dad anyway.

My Mrs Right exists. But I won't look for her on these websites. She doesn't want a baby or a white wedding. She values her freedom more than she likes diamond rings. She's free like me. I will find her, but I'll find her on a back road, at a bike rally, smoking a fag in a hot dusty lay-by, but she isn't on match.com waiting for prince charming.

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rollingc said almost 3 years ago ...

Fate is the only one that's going to bring your life partner to you. It doesn't hurt to keep your eyes open either, in case she walks by.

wombat said almost 3 years ago ...

I agree with both you and rollingc. When the right one comes along, it might be unexpected but also so real it will make you go, "Oh, crap. This is my life, I guess." All the others will be just that--all the others. I don't know much about dating sites, but I can say it must be hard to find that "real" one there, but just maybe not impossible. If you found her there, you both would probably end up one day saying, "Can you BELIEVE we actually met on a dating site?"

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